father's day

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hari ini minggu ketiga bulan juni, itu tandanya hari ini, hari ayah. sayangnya di Indonesia cuma ada hari ibu, padahal ayah ga kalah pentingnya loh di hidup kita. kalo ga ada ayah kita juga ga bakalan ada. ayah juga yang banting tulang nyari duit buat keluarga nya bisa hidup, anak2nya bisa sekolah, keluarganya bisa piknik jalan- jalan.

hari ini di otak gw cuma inget sama papa. hari ini gw jadi flash back hidup gw yang udah gw habisin sama papa. walopun bokap gw kadang2 suka nyebelin abis, keras kepala, sering nanya2 hal yang ga penting. tapi jasa-jasa beliau di hidup gw bener harus di acungin seribu jempol. dari mulai gw lahir, bokap gw emang pengen punya anak cewe. makanya bokap gw sayang banget sama gw. apa-apa yang gw mau, pasti dibeliin. gw pengen ini, dikasih. gw pengen jalan-jalan kemana, diturutin.

papa ga pernah ngebeda-bedain antara gw sama ikram (adek gw). bagi beliau gw sama adek gw punya hak yang sama di keluarga gw. waktu gw mutusin buat kuliah di malaysia. papa juga yang ngebelain gw di temen-temennya yang nyindir bokap gw, fitnah bokap gw korupsi lah di kantor makanya bisa nyekolahin gw di malay. "arghhh man, papa ga pernah bawa uang haram ke rumah, even cuma telor asin dikasih nasabah, itu juga bakal di pulangin." gw juga pernah denger bokap gw yang ngebela gw di temen2nya yang punya anggapan anak perempuan ga usah disekolahin tinggi-tinggi entar juga ujung-ujungnya didapur. gw ampir nangis waktu denger bokap gw bilang "anak perempuan saya harus pinter kaya orang lain, anak perempuan saya ga boleh bodoh seperti saya, walaupun dia perempuan dia harus maju, saya yakin tia bisa, soalnya saya tau tia hebat." gw terharu sama papa, beliau percaya banget sama gw, beliau juga mau gw punya kehidupan yang lebih baik daripada beliau. walaupun gw perempuan, tapi menurut beliau , gw punya kesempatan yang sama dengan laki-laki

papa juga pernah ngecewain aku, tapi papa kan juga manusia biasa yang pasti bisa khilaf. tapi walaupun gitu. gw selalu berterima kasih sama Allah, karena Allah udah nitipin gw ke orang tua yang hebat. papa yang bijaksana dan mama yang tegar.

makasih papa udah ngejaga aku sampai hari ini, i love you


Happy Father's Day

everything i do is for a reason

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Im not an angel, I also can not be white as snow, like when I was a baby.
I am 20 years old now, there is now ton of problems in my brain. you who taught me to not show my problems in front of others. but if I am wrong if I am looking for an escape for it?

I also know the consequences, but do not make me feel guilty like this.

sorry, but i need Those thing.

2 freaky's days with NINDA

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ceritanya itu berawal dari gw pengen berenang banget, gara-gara di apartemen gw ga ada kolam renang, gw langsung meres otak gw *mau nebeng berenang dimana, eh tiba-tiba aja otak gw cling cling inget ninda, di vista kan kolam, sorenya langsung aja gw ngeluncur pake taksi kesono, ampe disono, ternyata berenangnya cuma 1 jam doang, (ga ngepol bgt).

pas ngobrol2 sama ninda gw inget kalo hari ini ada tanding bola MU vs Chelsea, mas Lampard maeennnn... !!!!!! mau nonton dirumah tapi astronya ga ada espn. damn mameenn. akhirnya kita mutusin buat nyewa si kuning jreng jreng deh. malem2 cuma be2an, yang satu ditinggal pacar, yang satu ga punya pacar, ya udah klop banget kita menjelajah kota KL. pengennya rencana awal kita ke Sunway, tapi sial kita nyasar ke antah berantah. nyasar ke subang, ke KL balik lagi ke Sunway.

tapi usaha kita ga sia2 dong ternyata CHELSEA menang mameennn, walopun gw pake baju saltum. bonek chelsea pake cardigan merah, tapi bodo amat. yang penting chelsea menang plus kita ketemu cowo ganteng (anak presiden rumania kalo kata ninda) cowo aneh dateng cuma modal headset, abis itu duduk ga mesen apa2 terus nonton bola.

selesai nonton bola, kita keliling KL lagi dengan si kuning jreng jreng. mikir kemana yaa enaknya... eh baru inget dindy tya rao sama mamat lagi di pavi. *samperin ahhh. nyamperin sih nyamperin tapi waktu jalan mau ke pavi kita sempet hampir innalillahi.

kita sampe rumah jam 3 pagi. langsung ngatur rencana buat besok. sotoy bgt kita mau ke PD. lagi pengen maen2 dipantai bikin kulit tanned (padahal apa yg mau di tanned udah item bleketek gini) hahahaha

tapi rencana gagal boss, si ninda kelewat kebo tidurnya. baru bangun jam 12 siang. ck ck ck. ya udah deh kita jalan kemana angin membawa kita, tetep bersama si kuning jreng jreenggg. awalnya kita ke putrajaya. muter2 sampe bego abis itu nyasar ke kuchai lama, nyasar lagi kok sampe ke sunway lagi, *gubrakkk, yo wess lah ngegaul disunway piramid lagi.

gw akuin si bebek adus ini tau dimana makanan enak. pertama kita makan takoyaki. itu sumpah ga boong enak bgt lebih enak daripada di mid valley.trus viewnya kita bisa liat sunway lagoon. abis makan takoyaki kita lanjut es krim jepang rekomendasi ninda. lagi lagi emang enakk paraaahhh, terus low fat lagi, fat nya = 0% .

es krim abis. ninda masih laper dong sodara2 sekalian. akhirnya dia beli ireland potatoes. ini juga maknyosssss abis. kaynya sunway pyramid emang gudangnya makanan enak kali yaaa. duh pengen kesono lagi. kelar muter muter. kita pulang sama si kuning jreng jrengg lagi . pulang ke vista. ngenet bentaran. abis itu pulangin si kuning deh. *sedih banget mulangin kuning. berasa udah sayang. tapi itu mobil punya orang, gimana dong? hahahaha

pas ngembaliin konci mobil, si ninda ngmong gini *"kenapa gw ga inget, gw mau ke ampang view deh fat?"
"ya kalii nin, udah dikembaliin lo baru inget."

makasih yaa nin, lo bikin last weekend di KL berkesan banget. walopun jalan2 pake nyasar ga ngerti kemana tapi moto GPS gw *nyasar diKL mah ga usah takut entar nembus kesitu2 juga* hahha

*Nanti kalo gw balik lagi KL, kita ke lagoon yuk nin, nyewa si kuning jreng jrengg lagi,, makan takoyaki lagi, makan es krim jepang lagi, tapi ga usah pake nyasar2 lagi :))








sorry foto2 jalan2 kita masih di hape gw, laptopnya ninda abal, bluetoothnya rusak :P

Life Lessons

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Lessons in Life

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's okay to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's okay to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

45. The best is yet to come.

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

48. If you don't ask, you don't get.

49. Yield.

50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.


-Regina Brett-

FOR BOYS

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When a GIRL is quiet,
Millions of things are running in her mind
When a GIRL is not arguing,
She is thinking deeply
When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of
questions,
She is wondering how long you will be
around
When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a
few seconds,
She is not at all fine
When a GIRL stares at you,
She is wondering why you are lying
When a GIRL lays on your chest,
She is wishing for you to be hers forever
When a GIRL calls you everyday,
She is seeking for your attention
When a GIRL sms's u everyday,
She wants you to reply at least once
When a GIRL says I love you,
She means it
When a GIRL says that she can't live
without you,
She has made up her mind that you are
her future
When a GIRL says "i miss you",
No one in this world can miss you more
than that.

when i had to choose something that i don't want to

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now, this minute, I had a dilemma. when I had to decide which path would I choose. next Wednesday is my FYP presentation schedule, which means that very soon I had to leave malaysia. sigh! i hate farewell. it was like when I left Indonesia 2.5 years ago. I really do not know my plan the future. too much pressure.

"do not leave us too soon" icha said. I really do not want to go from here. I've felt comfortable to stay here. although sometimes I feel homesick, too

now I regret why I completed my college degree too fast. with the intention to escape from the problem but until now I cannot get out of this problem. I'm getting more familiar with this complicated situation.

I may come home early from my initial schedule anticipated, on May. but now, I probably could finish all my business by the end of March. sigh sigh sigh ....!!!!!

mama papa ikram, instead I did not miss you. but I want to feel how I manage my own life. but if I had to go home, I'll be home soon. :)


the unforgettable moments























and other memories …..!!!


*****

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I say “I don’t care” because... my pride won’t let me show you how much I need you.

As You Travel Through Life

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As you travel through life there are always those times
When decisions just have to be made,
When the choices are hard, and solutions seem scarce,
And the rain seems to soak your parade.

There are some situations where all you can do
Is simply let go and move on,
Gather your courage and choose a direction
That carries you toward a new dawn.

So pack up your troubles and take a step forward
The process of change can be tough,
But think about all the excitement ahead

There might be adventures you never imagined
Just waiting around the next bend,
And wishes and dreams just about to come true
In ways you can't yet comprehend!

Perhaps you'll find friendships that spring from new things
As you challenge your status quo,
And learn there are so many options in life,

Perhaps you'll go places you never expected
And see things that you've never seen,
Or travel to fabulous, faraway worlds
And wonderful spots in between!

Perhaps you'll find warmth and affection and caring
And somebody special who's there
To help you stay cantered and listen with interest
To stories and feelings you share.

Perhaps you'll find comfort in knowing your friends
Are supportive of all that you do,
And believe that whatever decisions you make,
They'll be the right choices for you.

So keep putting one foot in front of the other,
And taking your life day by day...
There's a brighter tomorrow that's just down the road -
Don't look back! You're not going that way!

Perahu Kertas

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This novel, a popular genre, the style typical of urban young people said, especially seen in the dialogues in it. So did stories about lectures, books and party in the story. Slightly different for example with "Coffee Philosophy" that tends to serious, narrative and humor and rarely involve . I do not know, maybe this kind of breakthrough to be closer to the reader. Indonesian people, especially young children had been grateful to read, not wise to burden the reader with things heavy. Maybe.

Honestly, the beginning of my story is a little confusion with the names of particular Kugy name and Keenan. Furthermore, many figures in it as Eko, Noni, Wanda, Ojos, Pak Wayan, Adri, Lena, Remi, Luhde, etc. Ben.To tell their story again. After I weigh it and thought, it focuses to highlight the story of Dee Kugy and Keenan. As soon as I catch. From the second story, I smelled there approximately three things to be submitted Dee, about Love, Dream and Honesty. This according to my reading. Sorry if it's wrong.

Love: Yes. This novel is about love that are buried by Kugy and Keenan. Both were friends of the campus in Bandung. Like the sky and wells. So said Dee to describe them. They admired each other. However, both are equally unable to express it.
Dream: Kugy, is a messy girl who wants became an interpreter desperate tale. While Keenan really dreams of becoming an artist, a painter. The dream was smooth. Kugy to pass life with realistic become a copy writer, while Keenan instead must turn toward dramatic enough, to work taking care of his father's trading company. However, they always believed in his dream. Nothing is more beautiful than they support each other. And so Dee concocted the story neatly inside. As if to say "Do not Fear To Dreams"
Honesty: This is the end of the story that confuse blue. Both (Kugy and Keenan) had separated for so long. Kugy, already had a lover named Remi, the boss in his office. Meanwhile, Keenan also had a lover girl Bali, Luhde . The story was so complicated. However, Remi finally realized that the heart is only for Keenan Kugy, while Luhde same, though the love is there, only to heart Kugy Keenan. This first honesty . Then, when Keenan Kugy honest and open hearts, took off their egos, they honestly love each other.

-FathiaNoverika

loving someone you will never have

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What happens when you realise that you are in love with someone you will never have? A kind and considerate man. A romantic man. Somebody who knows the right things to say and the right places to touch. Somebody who can ignite flames that you thought died along time ago . Somebody who can make you dream dreams so real. What happens when you can't get him out of your mind all day long? What happens when you know he loves to another?







friendship and argument

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Friendships go through a trial of arguments and misunderstandings. Something a friend or a person close to you can ruin the whole friendship all together. The best way to move on with life is to forgive and forget. We all know that when we let go of things and it will lighten the load. But that's easier said then done. Here are a couple of things you can do to smoothen the process:

  1. Think of what happened.
  2. Acknowledge your feelings. Seek out for anger or hurt or sadness that you might feel.
  3. Accept responsibility for your own emotions. If you were wronged and your emotions maybe justified, it's still up to you to be ready to stop feeling angry or upset.
  4. Talk to the other person of the behavior that make you feel upset or angry. You might not feel ready to forgive until the person had heard and understood your point of view.
  5. Try and understand the other person's point of view. Even if you don't agree with him/her.
  6. Rebuild trust in the relationship. Make agreements about what is acceptable future behavior when the situation calls.
  7. Make a decision to forgive. Tell that to the other person. Once you've done this make sure you really move on and that you make all efforts to let go completely

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i like to move it move it

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dih gw udah lama bgt ga pernah ngupdate blog lagi. bukannya males, tapi emang tidur-tiduran di tempat tidur lebih enak daripada bloging (lah? itu namanya apa kalo ga males) hahahahha. heeyyy, aku baru pindah ke apartemen baru loh. gw pindah dari condominium ke apartemen. memang jadi lebih kecil sih, tapi pas lah buat ukuran mahasiswa rantau kaya gw. hahahahaha

jarak tempat tinggal lama sama tempat tinggal baru gw ga begitu jauh. paling cuma satu kilo doang. ke kampus juga jadi tambah deket. and my new apartment exactly in front of bukit jalil stadium wwoohhooooo. jadi enak kalo mau nonton konser. ga deng gw ga pernah minat sama nonton konser live. even though itu penyanyi ato band kesukaan gw. mau murah mau mahal mau gratisan juga gw ga suka. jadi ga ada ngaruh nya juga sih deket stadium bukit jalil, toh gw juga ga suka bola. hahahaha

apartemen gw yang baru satu blok dan satu lantai sama apartemennya ijum a.k.a dindy dan minah a.k.a tya. assikkkkkk

seneng deh punya tetangga kaya mereka,suka foto2 webcam, joged2 ga jelas, bisa numpang nyuci gratis, numpang ngenet gratis, numpang gratis, malah tadi gw dibayarin burger sama dindy. HAHAHAHAHA


pindahan itu ternyata ga ada enaknyaa, capek, badan pegel, tidur ga enak, alergi kumat, uuuuuuuuuuuu, gw udah mulai packing dari 5 hari sebelum gw bener move dari tempat tinggal lama gw, tapi rasanya gw selesai2 semua barang2 gw, baju apa lagi. Pas hari terakhir gw ngitung barang2 packingan gw sendiri aja ada 3 kardus gede, 2 koper gede, 2 tas super gede, satu koper sedeng, 3 rak, 1 lemari, 3 ember, satu kantong plastic gede isinya Cuma buat sepatu. What the….!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Buat mindahin barang gw ike sama prima nyewa lory. Pas semua barang diturunin barang gw diangkatin Cuma sampe depan lift doang. Akhirnya yang laen ngebantuin gw buat ngangkatin sampe masuk ke dalem rumah. Hari itu juga gw paksain badan gw buat kerja beres2 kamar gw sendiri, gw bongkar semua barang2 gw, baju2 gw masukin ke lemari, tempat tidur gw sprei-in lanati gw sapu sama dip el, tapi tetep aja alergi gw kumat, gw ga berenti bersin2.

Jam 6 pagi baru gw selesai beres2 itu juga baru setengahnya. Gw tidur Cuma 3 jam. Jam 9 gw pergi sama tya ke tukang cat buat beli peralatan buat ngecat kamar, awalnya kita dianggurin sama engkoh2 matrialnya. Lama banget kita didiemin , baru deh kita dilayanin. Jam 12 siang kita balik ke apartemen. Di apartemen kerjaan gw juga belum beres. Gw mulai ngecat kamar, walopun kerjaan gw ga rapih tapi ya sudah lah buat kamar gw ini. Sampe jam 2 gw stop kerjaan gw, gw siap2 buat ke LCCT ngejemput abang gw yang paling ganteng a.k.a jawa a.k.a Garry Yunazhar Pawane.

Gw ke bandara bareng dindy. Doi mah mau nemenin gara2 nu green tea doang. Uuuuuuu… saking udah ga jelas lagi capeknya gw. Akhirnya gw ketiduran di bis, baru bangun pas udah deket2 LCCT.

Sampe dibandara ternyata jawa udah nyampe duluan, abis itu kita nongkrong2 di MCD, ahh akhirnyaaaa gw makan jugaaa. Perut kenyanggg abis itu kita foto2 deeeehh. Dindy juga udah dapet minuman keramat nya langsung suka senyum2 sendiri gitu. Uuuuuu.. padahal waktu di jalan gw bener2 dikacangin sama dia.



Jam 10 malem gw sama dindy sampe ke arena green (apartemennya kita). Pas gw masuk apartemen gw housemate gw lagi ada dirumah. Patty baru selesai beres2 kamar, icha biasa dia ga jelas. Abis itu gw ngelanjutin ngecat kamar gw. Lagi asik ngecat, icha dating mau ikutan ngecat juga. Tapi bukan tembok yang di cat tapi baju sama kaki gw. ASSSIIIIHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH..!!!!!!! hahahahaha. Jam 12 malem teng teng lewat dikit kali yaaa. Gw udah nyerah banget2. Gw udah capek sejadi jadinya. Kamar gw baru setengah selesai gw cat. Ya udah lah besok katanya jawa mau ngebantuin ngecat. Berharap jawa mau bantuin gw, akhirnya gw tidur pulesss banget . jam 9 pagi gw bangun, ruang tengah udah lebih bersih dari kemaren. Akhirnya gw naro barang2 gw yang belum selesai gw beresin ke kamarnya icha. Abis selesai mindah2in barang gw ke the store bareng patty belanja bahan makanan. Abis itu pulangnya gw ke tukang cat lagi buat beli kuas sama satu liter cat. Nyampe arena gw nunggu kabar dari jawa, gw bingung kok dia ga ngasih kabar, apa masih tidur, akhirnya gw sms aja. Pas dibales ternyata jawa nya ga enak badan. Wokeeehhh, perfect banget, tadinya gw mau entaran aja ngecat nya. Pas gw liat kamarnya icha. Ternyata kak ani lagi ngeberesin kamarnya icha. Doh ga enak gw sama icha kalo numpang naro barang kelamaan disana. Mau ga mau, gw maksain diri buat nyelesein ngecat kamar gw sampe selesai.

Jam 7 sore baru gw bener2 selesai ngecat kamar, uuuuu kamar ku berwarna hijauuu sekarang. Puasss ngeliat hasil kerjaan sendiri. Beres ngecat mulai deh ngatur2 kamar lagi sampe beres. Dari masang kaca. Pajang lukisan nya nyokab gw. Ngatur alat make up, ngatur buku. Jam setengah 10 baru semuanya beres. Akhirnya gw mandi abis itu pergi numpang ngenet di rumah JUMINTEN DAN MINAH. Uuuuuuuuu

Sekarang semuanya udah settled, gw juga udah ga berasa capeknya lagi, gw juga betah sama kamar baru gw. Kamar hijau Carrefour kalo kata dindy hahahaha.

Oh iya finally ini foto housemate gw yang sekarang










Fenomena Mahasiswa Rantau

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Orang-orang kebanyakan selalu ngira mahasiswa mahasiswa yang kuliah diluar negeri, hidupnya enak. Punya kesempatan tinggal diluar negeri, bisa jalan-jalan dinegeri orang. Padahal coba ditanya sama yang ngejalaninnya. Bener-bener ga enak, kita dipaksa buat hidup mandiri buat survive.
hidup di luar negeri ga sama rasanya sama hidup dinegeri sendiri. mulai dari tempat tinggal, makanan, sama gaya hidup sosial juga beda. Masih untung gw kuliah di Malaysia, kalo soal makanan rasanya ga jauh beda dan buat nyari masakan indo juga ga susah. Disini juga banyak orang Indonesia yang menetap. Gw ga bisa ngebayangin kalo gw kuliah di Eropa atau Amerika, gimana cara gw makan? terus bisa ga ya gw ngikutin cara sosialnya mereka yang individualis banget.

Pertama kali, gw nginjekin kaki di Malaysia buat kuliah yang gw pikirin gimana cara gw makan. Gw ga bisa masak sama sekali. cuma bisa bikin mie instant sama ngerebus air doang. 2 minggu pertama gw ga berani beli bahan mentah di supermarket. Makanan gw cuma roti , roti , dan roti (untung mata gw ga berubah jadi biru gara-gara makanan gw kaya bule). dikit-dikit gw belajar cara ngupas bawang, motong bawang, numis sayur. Ternyata kalo dipaksain gw bisa juga masak walopun seadanya banget terus gw kenyang yo wess selesai.

Masalah kedua yang gw pikirin, cara ngatur uang jajan biar ga tekor tiap bulan gimana ya??. Kalo soal duit sih kaya nya bukan gw doang yang bermasalah sama pengaturan finansial. hampir semua temen-temen gw ngerasainnya kok. bahkan ada yang sampe kerja part time buat ngecukupin hidupnya mereka. contohnya Fandy, mantan gw, dia kuliah di Australi. dalam sebulan orang tuanya cuma ngasih uang bulanan sangat pas-pasan banget buat ngajarin dia hidup mandiri dan hemat. dan dia dilarang minta uang jajan lebih kalo uang dia habis. pokoknya gimana cara nya uang dikasih orang tuanya cukup untung sebulan. akhirnya dia muter otak, dia kerja part-time di mc donald's setiap sabtu minggu. awalnya dia jadi tukang ngelap meja terus pernah jadi tukang delivery, sampe akhirnya dia jadi kasir di McD. selama ampir 2 tahun dia hidup kaya gitu. Salut gw sama dia. bukan karena dia mantan gw, tapi emang dia bisa mandiri gara-gara kepaksa.

Belum lagi tugas tugas kuliah yang numpuk, kita harus bagi waktu antara kuliah, ngerjain kerjaan dirumah kaya masak , nyapu, ngepel, nyuci, nyetrika, ngerjain assignment, sama kebutuhan kita kaya jalan2. itu bener2 ga gampang. survive jauh dari orang tua sulit dari yang gw bayangin sebelumnya. belum lagi kalau kita lagi homesick, kangen rumah, kangen keluarga, kangen temen-temen. ribet banget.

Gara-gara gw tinggal disini, gw juga jadi ngerti ngumpul bareng keluarga emang tak ternilai. mungkin karena gw ga setiap hari ketemu ama orang tua gw sama sodara gw. jadi kalau ada kesempatan ngumpul bareng, gw bakal ngelupain urusan gw yang lain. kata nyokab gw juga, gw sekarang banyak perubahan dari gw SMA dulu. gw lebih mandiri, lebih deket sama keluarga. mungkin ini hikmahnya gw kuliah jauh. gw jadi bisa masak, gw jadi tau gimana susahnya nyokab gw ngatur uang, gw juga ngerasain gimana susahnya bokap gw nyari duit, gw juga udah bisa nyetrika kemeja gw sendiri. Dan kata bokap gw . gw udah berubah dari cewe manja yang ga bisa apa2 jadi cewe yang sekarang udah bisa ngatur at least hidupnya sendiri. Mungkin gw ga bakalan kaya gini kalo gw kuliah tetep tinggal deket sama orang tua.

friendship- being there in all weather

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You know the age old saying, "A friend in need, is a friend indeed." I don't know about you, but when my friends are in trouble, I try my best to be there for them. Even if I can't do anything but hug them or just listen to them. The same way a lot of my friends are like that. All I have to do is pick up the phone and call them and they'd be there for me.

But sometime's it's not enough to just be there, you have to tell your friends that you're there for them. Because sometimes, when we're in trouble, we forget that there are friends whom we can call. So tell them that you're not just a fair weather friend that you'd be there in whatever weather it is


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CINTA....!!! kalo ngebahas topik ini ga pernah ada matinya dari pagi ketemu pagi lagi. obrolan soal gini ga pernah selesai. masing-masing orang punya cerita yang berbeda. kadang seneng kadang sakit. kadang bahagia kadang menangis. hummphhh....!!!!

cinta...?? pertanyaan yang sering gw tanyain ke sepupu-sepupu waktu gw masih kecil.
"susah ga sih sayang sama orang?", "gimana sih rasanya pacaran?" dan sepupu-sepupu gw semuanya bilang "entar kamu ngerasain sendiri dan bakal bisa ngejawab pertanyaan kamu dengan persepsi kamu sendiri."

okeh gw bersabar nunggu saat gw bisa ngejawab pertanyaan gw sendiri. dan akhirnya gw ngerasain pacaran untuk pertama kali. gw girangnya bukan main. WOW...!!! dan akhirnya emang putus juga sama si pacar pertama. tapi gw tau akhirnya gimana rasanya pacaran. dan tinggal pertanyaan gw "susah ga sih sayang sama orang?"

dan waktu smp gw ngejawab pertanyaan gw yang itu dan gw jawab "gampang kok sayang sama orang"dan jawaban gw salah . ternyata gw nemuin jawaban yang bener waktu gw ngerasain bangku SMA. akhirnya gw tau perbedaan "LIKE" dan "LOVE" bukan hal yang mudah untuk ngebuat diri kita sendiri sayang sama orang lain (yang gw maksud lawan jenis disini).butuh waktu yang lama, dan butuh keyakinan yang bener2 buat ngeyakinin kalo emang dia pantes buat kita lebih dari sekedar suka. gw sendiri aja ga tau gimana caranya bisa sayang sama orang. terjadi natural chemistry yang ngalir gitu aja. dan gw juga ga bisa ngejawab tipe cowo yang bisa gw sayang. karena buat pacar aja gw ga punya tipe khusus.

kita boleh sayang sama orang. tapi kita juga harus bisa ngerelain orang yang kita sayang buat ngejalanin hidupnya dia juga. bagaimana rasanya kalo kita ngeliat mantan kita yang masih kita sayang jalan sama cewe lain. pasti campur aduk antara marah, sedih, kehilangan, cemburu jadi satu. dan bisa ga lo bayangin gimana sakitnya buat nahan air mata sakit??? ato bagaimana rasanya lo tau pacar lo balikan sama mantannya tanpa sepengetahuan lo dan lo nya dijelek-jelekin depan mantannya itu.

dua-duanya sakit. dan keduanya juga harus ngerelain orang yang mereka sayang untuk orang lain. berani untuk sayang berani juga buat ngelepasin.

gw sendiri pertama kali sayang sama cowo waktu gw sma. RIKO namanya, temen sebangku gw sendiri waktu kelas sepuluh. dimata gw dia cowo yang almost perfect. dan gw mendem perasaan sayang gw ke dia selama 3 tahun. gw sama riko deket banget, kemana mana pasti berdua. sampe pernah gara-gara gw lupa bawa dompet. dia ngebagi nasi goreng nya dia buat gw gara-gara dia takut gw sakit. milik gw milik dia juga gitu juga sebaliknya. gw ga pernah keberatan dia minjem barang-barang gw selama berhari soalnya dia juga gitu dia juga ga pernah keberatan kalo gw minjem barang-barang dia. gw jadi inget kebiasaan gw sama riko waktu kelas abis. kita motong jeruk nipis trus diusap usap ke muka buat ngobatin jerawat. hahahahaha... padahal itu perih nya bukan main. tapi disitu gw bahagia. soalnya gw deket sama riko. dan dia selalu ada buat gw. dia selalu minjemin bahu nya buat tempat gw nangis. dan dia selalu minjemin sapu tangannya buat ngapusin air mata gw. see..!! almost perfect rite???
riko pernah bilang ke temen gw, "aku ga bakalan mau macarin fathia, tapi aku bakalan sekolah yang bener, dapet kerja , hidup mapan dan habis itu aku bakalan dateng ke orang tuanya" tapi gw tau riko pernah ngomong gitu waktu riko meninggal.

yaa.. riko meninggal gara-gara kecelakaan motor waktu kami kelas dua belas. dunia lo runtuh. air mata gw ga keluar sama sekali. bener bener kering. tatapan mata gw kosong kaya orang gila.
dan gw ngalamin kaya gitu hampir 3 bulan. tiap kali di kelas gw selalu ngeliat arah luar berharap riko lewat terus senyum kaya biasanya. gw juga selalu bawa jeruk nipis tiap hari tapi gw ga tau gw bawa jeruk nipis buat siapa? orangnya udah pergi. dan ga bakal balik lagi. gw harus ikhlas, tenyata Pemiliknya lebih sayang ke dia.

cinta itu misteri. kita ga pernah tau apa yang bakal terjadi. tapi gw yakin kok. tiap kita ngeikhlasin orang yang kita sayang. kita bakal dapet orang yang lebih baik lagi kok kedepannya.




The Biggest Loser

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Semuanya pasti udah tau sama acara reality show yang satu ini, The Biggest Loser. Awalnya reality show punya NBC ini cuma ditayangin di Amerika Aja. Tapi karena acara ini punya rating bagus. Tivi lokal juga jadi ngebeli acara ini, malahan sekarang udah ada The Bigget Loser Asia.

Konsep Reality Show ini menarik banget, ditengah2 lagi banyak booming reality show soal cinta-cinta an, nyari orang hilang yang ujung-ujungnya ketauan kalo itu cuma FAKE. Mending kita nonton acara tivi yang bisa kita contoh dan ambil manfaatnya

The Biggest Loser adalah reality show yang ngebantu orang-orang yang punya kelebihan dengan berat badan supaya mereka bisa menurunkan berat badan mereka dengan cara gaya hidup sehat yang bakal diajarin sama mereka. Peserta yang bisa ikut diacara ini boleh cowo ato cewe yang berat badannya diatas 200 kg. Dalam masa karantina mereka disuruh exercise tiap hari makan nya juga ga boleh yang berminyak. Pesertanya bakal di eliminasi tiapa minggu. Peserta yang progress turun berat badannya paling dikit, itu yang bakal dieliminasi.

Kadang-kadang mereka diingetin sama video mereka waktu masih kurus. Itu yang bakal jadi motivasi para pesertanya buat ngeyakinin hati mereka kalo mereka ga mau jadi orang yang kelebihan berat badan lagi.

Sebenernya waktu denger The Biggest Loser bakal nayangin yang versi Asia nya gw juga pengen ikutan audisi. Tapi alhamdulillah berat badan gw ga memenuhi syarat (ga mau juga sih ampe 200 kg kaya gt)

Emang sih gw ada masalah sama berat badan semenjak gw tinggal di Malaysia. Berat badan gw naik ga kira-kira. Keluarga gw banyak yang complain, temen-temen gw pada kaget semua. Soalnya dulu gw termasuk orang yang takut gendut. Naek 500 gram aja gw bakal diet buat 3 hari supaya berat gw bisa turun lagi.

Mungkin waktu gw kuliah, ga ada yang ngingetin lagi buat olahraga, ga ada yang nemenin lagi gw berenang, ga ada lawan gw lagi kalo maen badminton tiap hari kamis (damn...!!!) dan ditambah lagi gw tipe orang yang gampang naek berat badannya. Ya udah gw jadi nya termasuk orang yang consider gendut.

Ada yang bilang gw bagusan kaya gini, soalnya pipi gw ga cekung lagi kaya dulu, Muka gw juga lebih fresh daripada waktu jaman jaman tulang gw.

Tapi gw ngerasain banyak ga enaknya jadi orang gendut.
  1. Gw ga bisa make baju semua model kaya dulu lagi. Dulu gw kalo beli baju, ga perlu pusing sama yang namanya ukuran. pasti semua toko punya ukuran gw, apalagi toko-toko di ITC. Pasti ada lah ukuran kecil. dan dulu gw kalo nyari baju ga pernah mikir ini baju nya cocok ga ya sama bentuk badan gw. Dan sekarang gw ga bisa make baju bervariasi kaya dulu lagi. boro- boro bervariasi. ada ukuran yang pas dibadan aja udah syukur alhamdulillah
  2. Gw jadi cepet capek. Waktu jaman-jaman nya gw sekolah. walopun gw sekolah dari pagi ampe sore terus dilanjutin eskul ampe magrib terus ampe dari magrib sampe malem gw ada bimbel. Anehnya, gw ngerasa gw kuat-kuat aja. gw jalan kaki sejauh apapun. gw oke-oke aja ga pernah ngeluh. Tapi sekarang, jalan 500 meter aja gw pasti minta istirahat.

Berat gw emang ga sebesar peserta The Biggest Loser. Tapi gw udah termasuk obesitas level 1. Gw ga mau naek pangkat jadi level 2.

Padahal gw juga pengen banget ngasih surprise ke keluarga gw sama ke temen gw. Gw pengen nunjukin badan gw juga bisa kaya orang lain. Gw juga pengen ngeliatin ke Mama, gw juga bisa nurunin berat badan gw kaya dulu lagi. Tapi lagi-lagi usaha gw mentok sama penyakit gw. Maag gw udah tambah parah sekarang, lambung gw udah pernah luka. Perut gw ga bisa dibiarin kosong, harus selalu ada isinya. Kalo ga lambung gw bisa luka lagi :(

Sekarang gw cuma ngurangin porsi makan gw, biar progress nya lambat. tapi timbangan gw selalu turun bukannya jadi naek. Dan suatu saat nanti, gw pengen ngasih liat surprise ke keluarga gw dan temen gw. :)

* officially website for The Biggest Loser, http://www.biggestloser.com/
bagus tuh websitenya. ada tips-tips buat diet dan resep-resep makanan low kolesterol. Bisa dicoba


S-O-R-R-Y

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We see that this word SORRY is being used quite commonly these days. People do not realize that they are using this word for apologising. Its just become an habit .We have lost the feelings of apology when we utter this word.Said a bad word, say "Sorry" Hit someone say "Sorry". Did not go on time say "Sorry" . Cant help out someone when that person is asking for help say "Sorry" Its become like U give someone a tight slap without any reason and Say "I AM SORRY". Its become an easy way out to run away from troubles caused by our mistakes..Okay its not bad to say sorry.but then one should realize the true meaning of this word. I was just thinking about this word what must it be meaning... May be its a combination of words together. So I put it this way....

S- sincerely

 O- offering apology

 R- right from my heart

 R- realising my mistake and truly apologising to

 Y- you, with a promise to try not to commit that mistake again...


I guess life has become tooo mechanical.we dont even realize that in a day how many people we hurt...but then ya, we too are humans and humans do make mistakes.The only thing is that we must realize the true meaning of this word.That will help our heart to be at peace...!!

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